Colette Mattos, BACP
United Kingdom · 4 yrs exp
Works with Relationship / Family / Parenting +9
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileAcceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a psychological approach that helps people develop greater psychological flexibility by relating differently to thoughts and feelings while focusing on what matters most. Below you can browse therapists who list ACT among their approaches to find counsellors who match your needs.
United Kingdom · 4 yrs exp
Works with Relationship / Family / Parenting +9
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 18 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Grief / Parenting +14
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 6 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Addictions / Grief +16
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 3 yrs exp · 2 languages
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Trauma and abuse / Grief +17
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 4 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Addictions / Trauma and abuse +5
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 12 yrs exp
Works with Relationship / Family / Grief +16
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 6 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / LGBT / Relationship +15
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Trauma and abuse +17
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 11 yrs exp
Works with Relationship / Trauma and abuse / ADHD +17
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 16 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Family +11
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 7 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Addictions / Grief +15
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 8 yrs exp · 2 languages
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Grief / Self esteem +11
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 7 yrs exp · 2 languages
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Trauma and abuse / Self esteem +14
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 15 yrs exp
Works with LGBT / Relationship / Trauma and abuse +17
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Trauma and abuse +13
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 20 yrs exp · 2 languages
Works with Stress, Anxiety / LGBT / Trauma and abuse +7
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 33 yrs exp
Works with Family / Grief / Career +16
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 3 yrs exp
Works with Addictions / Relationship / Family +17
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 3 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / LGBT / Family +15
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp · 2 languages
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Anger / Self esteem +14
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 13 yrs exp
Works with Addictions / Relationship / Trauma and abuse +1
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 9 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Grief +14
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp · 3 languages
Works with Relationship / Trauma and abuse / Parenting +16
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 3 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Trauma and abuse / Grief +2
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 25 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / LGBT / Relationship +16
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 12 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Grief +13
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 13 yrs exp · 2 languages
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Family / Trauma and abuse +15
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 6 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Self esteem / Career +17
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Family +13
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp
Works with Relationship / Trauma and abuse / Grief +14
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 25 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Grief +8
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 6 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Family +2
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 8 yrs exp
Works with Trauma and abuse / Grief / Sleeping +2
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 10 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Family +4
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp · 2 languages
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Addictions / Relationship +8
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 3 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Sleeping / Parenting +13
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / LGBT / Relationship +11
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Relationship / Self esteem +7
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 10 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Family / Trauma and abuse +2
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 5 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Grief / Self esteem +14
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Client-Centred Therapy
View ProfileUnited Kingdom · 10 yrs exp
Works with Stress, Anxiety / Trauma and abuse / Grief +17
Works by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) / Attachment-Based Therapy
View ProfileAcceptance and Commitment Therapy, commonly called ACT, is built around the idea that trying to eliminate difficult thoughts and feelings is often unhelpful. Instead of teaching you to repress or battle internal experiences, ACT invites you to notice them with a different attitude and to make choices in line with your values. The approach aims to increase psychological flexibility - your ability to stay present, open up to experience, and take committed actions that move you toward a life you value.
ACT draws on a set of interrelated processes that therapists often emphasise in sessions. These include acceptance - allowing unwanted personal experiences to come and go without struggling with them; cognitive defusion - changing how you relate to thoughts so they have less literal power; present-moment awareness - practising mindfulness; values clarification - identifying what truly matters to you; and committed action - taking steps that align with those values. Together these processes form a practical framework rather than a rigid formula, so therapists adapt them to each person’s situation.
ACT is applied across a broad range of concerns where persistent thoughts and emotions interfere with daily life. You may encounter ACT when seeking help for anxiety, general low mood, stress and burnout, or difficulties with motivation and decision-making. Therapists also use ACT approaches with people facing chronic health conditions, persistent pain, or long-term patterns of worry and rumination, because the focus is on changing how you respond to pain or illness rather than promising eradication.
Beyond mood and anxiety, ACT can be relevant when relationships are strained by recurring reactions, when work life feels unfulfilling, or when life transitions raise questions about priorities and purpose. Because the model emphasises values and committed action, it is often chosen where people want practical ways to reorient their lives despite ongoing internal difficulties. If your concern is primarily about managing the impact of thoughts and feelings while building a clearer sense of direction, ACT may be a helpful option to explore with a therapist.
When you attend an ACT session you will often find a blend of dialogue, experiential practice and reflection. Sessions typically begin with a short check-in about what matters most to you that week and any situations that felt particularly challenging. The therapist may guide you through a brief mindfulness or awareness exercise to anchor attention in the present moment and to practise noticing thoughts and sensations without immediate reaction.
Therapeutic work often uses metaphors, experiential exercises and behavioural experiments to illustrate principles such as cognitive defusion or acceptance. You might try a short exercise that helps you observe how thoughts come and go, or be invited to describe your core values and imagine one small, concrete step to take in line with those values. Homework is common - not as a test but as an opportunity to practise noticing unhelpful patterns and to experiment with new responses in everyday life. Sessions are collaborative, with the therapist pairing clinical knowledge with your personal goals to create a practical plan for committed action between meetings.
Compared with some other therapies, ACT places less emphasis on changing the content of thoughts and more on changing your relationship with those thoughts. Traditional cognitive-behavioural approaches may focus on identifying and disputing unhelpful beliefs, aiming to reduce symptoms by modifying thought content. ACT, by contrast, accepts that thoughts will occur and introduces skills to defuse their impact so they no longer dictate behaviour.
ACT also differs from insight-oriented psychodynamic work, which explores historical origins of feelings and patterns to foster understanding. While ACT does not dismiss history, its priority is demonstrating how present-moment choices can create a meaningful life even while uncomfortable experiences persist. Compared with person-centred approaches that emphasise unconditional positive regard and the therapeutic relationship as the main agent of change, ACT integrates relational warmth with targeted experiential practices and a clear focus on values-driven action. The result is a pragmatic blend of mindfulness, acceptance and behavioural change tailored to real-life outcomes you identify as important.
ACT may suit you if you are tired of trying to control your inner experience and want practical tools to live in line with your values despite difficult thoughts or feelings. If you notice that attempts to suppress emotions or arguments with your own thinking often make problems worse, ACT’s emphasis on acceptance and defusion can offer a different path. The approach works well for people who prefer active, skills-based therapy with exercises to practise between sessions, and for those who value clarity about personal priorities as part of the therapeutic work.
That said, ACT is not a one-size-fits-all answer. Some people prefer a more exploratory focus on the past, while others need very specific medical or psychiatric interventions alongside talking therapy. You should consider your goals, how you prefer to work in therapy, and whether a values-oriented, experiential model resonates with you. Discussing these aspects with a prospective therapist can help determine fit without assuming suitability based on diagnosis alone.
Begin by looking for therapists who list Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or ACT among their approaches, and then read profiles to understand how they describe their practice. Pay attention to details such as the kinds of issues they often work with, their therapeutic background, and whether they are registered with relevant UK professional bodies. Registration with a recognised professional body indicates adherence to a code of practice and ongoing professional standards, which can be important when choosing a practitioner.
Consider practical matters that matter to you - whether you prefer in-person meetings, online sessions, or a mix of both - and look for therapists who clearly explain their session format, typical session length and fee structure. A helpful therapist profile will outline how they work and what to expect from a course of therapy, including the balance between experiential exercises and discussion. When you make initial contact, you can ask about their experience working with ACT-style interventions, how they help people set value-based goals, and how they support practice between sessions. This kind of dialogue helps you assess whether their style and approach are likely to fit with your needs.
Finding the right therapist is a personal process. Allow yourself time to review profiles, reflect on what you want from therapy, and follow up with questions that clarify how ACT might be applied to your situation. When you connect with a therapist who uses ACT principles in a way that resonates with you, it can provide a structured yet flexible path to living more deliberately despite ongoing challenges.