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Melisha Pillay

BACP · United Kingdom

Compassionate counsellor using creative, values-led approaches

Experience
4 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Session type
Online only

About Melisha

Melisha Pillay is a counsellor who brings four years of practical experience to her work. She holds BACP accreditation, which she uses as the foundation for thoughtful, person-focused sessions. Melisha aims to create a calm, respectful space where people can begin to notice what matters to them.

She offers a straightforward, compassionate style. Sessions are held with empathy, honesty and trust at their core. Melisha uses creative exercises alongside talking to help ideas land and change happen more quickly for some people.

Background and approach

Her approach draws on several well-known therapies. Melisha uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to help with unhelpful thoughts and actions. She also works from an attachment-based perspective to look at how past relationships affect current feelings.

Melisha can support people tackling a wide range of concerns. These include stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, grief and trauma and abuse. She also offers help around relationships, intimacy-related issues, addictions, parenting, sleep and eating problems, career strain and coping with life changes.

Additional focuses include ADHD, abandonment, adoption and foster care issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness and body image. She also offers Christian counselling and can work within a person’s own religious or belief framework when requested. Sessions are offered in English and can be held remotely for people in the United Kingdom and internationally.

Melisha uses a collaborative style, helping people choose methods and goals that fit their values and needs.

What Melisha works with

Primary focus
Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuse
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How Melisha works

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

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Attachment-Based Therapy

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Client-Centred Therapy

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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

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Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

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Existential Therapy

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Sessions & fees

Therapeutic approaches suited to online work

Melisha uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people clarify what matters to them and take small meaningful steps toward those values. ACT often helps with anxiety, low mood and problems that come from getting stuck in unhelpful thoughts.

She also draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to identify thought patterns and behaviours that keep problems going, and then practise different ways of responding. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, sleep and some eating concerns. Attachment-Based Therapy is another strand she uses to look at how early relationships shape current feelings and patterns, which can be helpful for intimacy and relationship struggles.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Melisha collaborates with each person to choose methods that fit their goals, beliefs and daily life. She adjusts techniques over time based on how things are progressing and what feels useful.

Online formats support this flexible way of working. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier when movement is needed, while live chat or text-based messaging suit short check-ins or people who prefer typing. These options make therapy more accessible and let people fit sessions around work, caregiving and travel.
Session lengthTypically 50 minutes
Client agesAdults, 18 and over
FeesSubscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime
InsuranceNot billed directly

Questions people ask

What concerns does this counsellor help with?
Melisha supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief and trauma and abuse. She also helps with relationship and intimacy-related issues, addictions, ADHD, sleep and eating problems, and career or life changes.
What is Melisha’s therapeutic style like?
Her style is warm, honest and collaborative. She blends talking with creative interventions and uses values-based work to help people move forward.
How much experience does she have?
Melisha has four years of counselling experience working with a broad range of issues and approaches.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, listed as BACP, and practises from the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients as well as people in the United Kingdom.
What session formats does she offer?
Therapy can be delivered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Melisha?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

Areas of focus

What this therapist works with

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Experience
4 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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