Melisha Pillay
Compassionate counsellor using creative, values-led approaches
About Melisha
Melisha Pillay is a counsellor who brings four years of practical experience to her work. She holds BACP accreditation, which she uses as the foundation for thoughtful, person-focused sessions. Melisha aims to create a calm, respectful space where people can begin to notice what matters to them.
She offers a straightforward, compassionate style. Sessions are held with empathy, honesty and trust at their core. Melisha uses creative exercises alongside talking to help ideas land and change happen more quickly for some people.
Background and approach
Her approach draws on several well-known therapies. Melisha uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to help with unhelpful thoughts and actions. She also works from an attachment-based perspective to look at how past relationships affect current feelings.
Melisha can support people tackling a wide range of concerns. These include stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, grief and trauma and abuse. She also offers help around relationships, intimacy-related issues, addictions, parenting, sleep and eating problems, career strain and coping with life changes.
Additional focuses include ADHD, abandonment, adoption and foster care issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness and body image. She also offers Christian counselling and can work within a person’s own religious or belief framework when requested. Sessions are offered in English and can be held remotely for people in the United Kingdom and internationally.
Melisha uses a collaborative style, helping people choose methods and goals that fit their values and needs.
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Sessions & fees
Therapeutic approaches suited to online work
Melisha uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people clarify what matters to them and take small meaningful steps toward those values. ACT often helps with anxiety, low mood and problems that come from getting stuck in unhelpful thoughts.She also draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to identify thought patterns and behaviours that keep problems going, and then practise different ways of responding. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, sleep and some eating concerns. Attachment-Based Therapy is another strand she uses to look at how early relationships shape current feelings and patterns, which can be helpful for intimacy and relationship struggles.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Melisha collaborates with each person to choose methods that fit their goals, beliefs and daily life. She adjusts techniques over time based on how things are progressing and what feels useful.
Online formats support this flexible way of working. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier when movement is needed, while live chat or text-based messaging suit short check-ins or people who prefer typing. These options make therapy more accessible and let people fit sessions around work, caregiving and travel.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 4 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English