Ilkay Alici
Compassionate, practical support for difficult life moments
About Ilkay
Ilkay Alici supports people facing relationship struggles, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting pressures, anxiety, stress, addictions and low self-esteem. She also helps with intimacy issues, eating and sleeping difficulties, anger, career concerns, mood disorders including bipolar and depression, and challenges such as ADHD and compassion fatigue. Ilkay speaks English and Turkish and works with clients from the United Kingdom and internationally.
Her style is warm and steady. Sessions aim to be practical and down to earth.
Background and approach
She focuses on what is happening now and on small steps that can make daily life easier. Sessions are conversational and rooted in the needs the client brings. Ilkay uses Client-Centred Therapy to build a trusting working relationship, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to identify unhelpful thinking patterns, and Mindfulness Therapy to help people notice and regulate difficult feelings.
These approaches are combined in ways that match each person’s goals and preferences. She has 14 years of experience and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. That membership is shown as BACP in her credentials.
Ilkay trained at masters level in psychology and psychotherapy and brings that background into session work. Sessions are offered via video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. People can expect collaborative planning, clear steps between meetings, and attention to everyday challenges like sleep, work stress and parenting demands.
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Sessions & fees
How Ilkay’s approaches work online
Client-Centred Therapy is about building a trusting, non-judgemental working relationship. The person’s own priorities guide the work and the therapist reflects and supports rather than directs, which helps when exploring relationships and self-worth.Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It helps people spot unhelpful thinking patterns and try practical exercises to reduce anxiety, improve mood and tackle behaviours such as compulsions or avoidance.
Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices so people can notice difficult feelings without being overwhelmed. It can help with stress, sleep difficulties and emotional regulation in everyday life.
Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. Ilkay will work collaboratively to agree what feels useful, try different techniques, and adjust the plan based on what helps most. Goals and preferences guide those choices so therapy remains practical and person-centred.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Video is useful when discussion benefits from face-to-face interaction, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and brief check-ins suit live chat or messaging. These options offer flexibility for busy schedules, quieter surroundings, and regular support without travel.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 14 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English, Turkish