Borbala (Bee) Shehata-Jakab
Integrative counsellor focusing on identity and relationships
About Borbala
Borbala (Bee) Shehata-Jakab is a counsellor who draws on integrative methods to help adults work through identity, relationships and life challenges. She offers a calm, accepting presence where people can talk about things they have not spoken about before. Her name is Bee and she speaks English and Hungarian.
Bee combines ideas from several approaches so sessions can be tailored to each person. She uses elements of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based work alongside client-centred listening.
Background and approach
That mix gives practical tools and space for reflection in equal measure. Sessions may include creative techniques if the person wants them. These options include journaling, chair work, dreamwork and using images and symbols to explore feelings.
Such tools are optional and used to support the process rather than replace talking. Her main focus includes stress, anxiety, depression, grief and trauma and abuse. Bee also helps people with self-esteem, LGBT concerns, relationship and parenting pressures, career changes and coping with life changes.
Bee has five years of experience and holds BACP and NCPS credentials. She works with adults aged 18 and over and practises from the United Kingdom. Her practical approach aims to help people identify strengths and develop new ways of managing hard situations.
Therapy with Bee centres on building trust and understanding. Together they explore how past experience shapes current choices, and then work on small, manageable steps to change what is not working.
What Borbala works with
How Borbala works
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Sessions & fees
How therapeutic approaches translate to online therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice painful thoughts without getting stuck in them and then commit to actions that match their values. It is useful for anxiety, stress and situations where someone wants clearer direction in life. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on relationships and how early patterns affect current bonds; it helps people understand attachment needs and improve how they connect with others. Client-Centred Therapy places the person at the centre of the work, offering empathetic listening and support as the main route to self-understanding and change.Finding the right approach is part of the work itself. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and then suggest which methods to try. Decisions are collaborative and can change as therapy progresses to match what helps most.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Video lets people see facial cues and remain visually connected. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text messaging can suit those who prefer writing, want more frequent brief contact, or find it easier to express themselves in words. These options make therapy more flexible and easier to fit around work, study and family life.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 5 years
- Registered with
- BACP, NCPS
- Languages
- English, Hungarian