Bence Troja
Compassionate humanistic counselling for everyday struggles
About Bence
Bence Troja uses a humanistic, person-centred style to help people facing emotional and life challenges. He works in a straightforward and respectful way, asking questions and listening closely so people can find their own strengths. Sessions are offered in English and Hungarian across the United Kingdom.
Bence holds NCPS credentials and brings six years of professional experience to his practice. He draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early relationships shape current patterns.
Background and approach
That helps when people are struggling with intimacy, abandonment or attachment difficulties. He also uses solution-focused tools to set small, practical goals that make daily life easier. Trauma-focused methods are available for those who have experienced abuse, loss or other distressing events.
Bence aims to create a calm space where those memories can be spoken about at a careful pace. He combines that with client-centred listening so people feel heard and respected. Common concerns he addresses include anxiety, depression, grief, stress, addictions and ADHD-related difficulties.
He also supports people with body image, relationship and career concerns, and those coping with chronic illness or caregiver strain. His work includes people affected by adoption and foster care, autism spectrum conditions, and sexual or kink-related issues. Sessions can take place by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging.
Bence explains options clearly and helps people choose what fits their life. To begin, individuals complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions through the Start Therapy flow.
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Sessions & fees
How his approaches fit with online therapy
Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape patterns in close connections. Online sessions allow gentle exploration of these patterns through conversation and reflection, helping with intimacy and attachment concerns. Client-centred therapy focuses on listening without judgement and following the person’s pace; it is well suited to video or phone work where the counsellor offers steady, empathic presence. Solution-focused therapy zeroes in on small, achievable steps and practical changes; it pairs naturally with text-based tools and brief check-ins to track progress.Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. The therapist will work together with the client to decide which methods fit best, based on goals and personal preferences. That collaborative decision can change as needs evolve during therapy.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text messaging suit quick check-ins, brief reflections or when typing feels more comfortable. These options make it easier to fit counselling around work, family or study commitments and to keep momentum between meetings.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
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Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 6 years
- Registered with
- NCPS
- Languages
- English, Hungarian