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Valerie Long

BACP · United Kingdom

Calm person‑centred counselling for major life issues

Experience
9 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Session type
Online only

About Valerie

Valerie Long helps people facing relationship strain, trauma and abuse, depression, and big life changes. She focuses on improving communication, managing panic and social anxiety, and navigating separation and control issues. Valerie uses a calm, gentle style that aims to help people feel more able to cope and make choices that suit them.

She trained and practises in the United Kingdom and has nine years of professional experience. Valerie is accredited with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, known as BACP, and she brings that background into her work in a straightforward way.

Background and approach

Her approach is person centred. That means she treats the client as the expert in their own life and follows the client’s lead. Sessions focus on self-exploration, building insight, and noticing strengths that already exist.

Valerie aims to create a calm, respectful atmosphere. Conversations tend to be slow and steady, with an emphasis on listening and helping people discover practical next steps. She concentrates on helping clients feel more empowered and able to move towards the life they want.

People meet with her to talk through grief, guilt and shame, feelings of isolation, or issues around forgiveness and life purpose. She also supports those dealing with panic attacks, post-traumatic stress, and ongoing anxiety. The work is collaborative and paced to each person’s needs.

What Valerie works with

Primary focus
Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuse
Also works with

Sessions & fees

How Valerie’s person centred approach works online

Valerie uses person centred work, which means sessions focus on the client’s experience and strengths. The therapist follows the client’s pace and helps them name what matters most. This approach is useful for people wanting to build self‑understanding and regain confidence after trauma or loss.

In addition to that core way of working, Valerie often supports people through techniques that help manage panic and anxiety. These are practical strategies you can try between sessions to reduce intense moments and improve daily coping. They suit people who need step‑by‑step tools alongside reflective conversation.

Finding the right approach is a shared process. Valerie will listen to your concerns, discuss options, and adapt the work to your goals and preferences. Collaboration helps decide whether steady listening, practical techniques, or a mix of both will be most helpful.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text‑based messaging. Video calls allow face‑to‑face conversation when you want more visual contact. Phone sessions can be quieter and use less bandwidth. Live chat and messaging suit shorter check‑ins or when writing feels easier. These options make it simpler to fit therapy into a busy life and to keep regular contact with a therapist.
Session lengthTypically 50 minutes
Client agesAdults, 18 and over
FeesSubscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime
InsuranceNot billed directly

Questions people ask

What problems does Valerie focus on?
She supports people with relationship issues, trauma and abuse, depression, and coping with life changes. Additional focus areas include communication problems, panic, social anxiety, guilt, and loneliness.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is person centred and gentle. She follows the client’s lead, listens closely, and helps people build insight and use their own strengths.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Valerie has nine years of professional experience working in counselling and related settings.
What credential does she hold and where is she based?
She is accredited with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Valerie offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text‑based messaging.
How much do sessions cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with her?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing the short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to therapist availability.

Areas of focus

What this therapist works with

Most often

Experience
9 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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