Tomasz Konieczny
Practical, goal-focused counselling
About Tomasz
Tomasz Konieczny offers straightforward, practical support for people facing stress, anxiety, depression and relationship or intimacy difficulties. He uses an active, goal-focused style that helps clients identify clear steps forward. Tomasz aims to create a warm, non-judgemental space where people can be heard and work on real change.
He draws on a mix of approaches so sessions can be adapted to what each person needs. Cognitive behavioural techniques are used to spot unhelpful thinking and build new coping skills.
Background and approach
Client-centred ideas make room for listening and understanding, while emotionally focused work helps untangle difficult feelings in close relationships. Tomasz holds BACP and NCPS credentials and has five years of experience. He practises from Kentucky and offers help in English and Polish.
International clients may be seen, and he supports people dealing with addiction, trauma and complex emotional problems as well as life transitions and career concerns. In practical terms Tomasz works with issues such as anger, self-esteem, abandonment and attachment difficulties, impulsivity, infidelity, separation and divorce, isolation, and coping after disasters.
He also offers support around alternative sex culture matters including BDSM and kink, and around immigration-related stress. Sessions are collaborative but structured. Tomasz will help clients set goals, explore options and test small changes between meetings.
The focus is on building coping skills and finding realistic steps that fit everyday life.
What Tomasz works with
How Tomasz works
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Sessions & fees
Approaches that guide online sessions
Client-centred therapy focuses on listening and understanding. The counsellor offers a supportive, non-judgemental stance so people can talk openly and find their own answers; this approach helps with low self-esteem, grief and life transitions.Cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT, looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It teaches practical techniques to reduce anxiety, manage mood and change unhelpful behaviour patterns through small, testable steps.
Emotionally-Focused Therapy helps people make sense of strong feelings in relationships. It encourages naming emotions and trying new ways of relating that reduce conflict and increase closeness.
Choosing the right approach is a shared process. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what has worked before, and then tailor methods to fit the person. Sessions can shift over time if different tools seem more helpful.
Online therapy here is available by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation, phone sessions can work when bandwidth is low, and messaging fits quick check-ins or ongoing written reflection. These options make it easier to fit work around busy lives and to access therapy from different places.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Anger management
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Career difficulties
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 5 years
- Registered with
- BACP, NCPS
- Languages
- English, Polish