Robert Paczkowski
Helping people find balance and direction
About Robert
Robert Paczkowski offers calm, straightforward support for people coping with stress, anxiety, addiction and low self-esteem. He explains things simply and listens without judgement. Sessions are suitable for those facing relationship strain, grief, parenting pressures, trauma, or questions about identity.
Robert speaks English and Polish and works online with people in the United Kingdom and abroad. Robert is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and he also holds NCPS.
Background and approach
He has seven years' experience providing short-term and longer-term therapy. In sessions he keeps things non-directive and person centred, so the pace and focus are shaped around what the client needs. His practice combines client-centred listening with practical methods drawn from cognitive behavioural and solution-focused approaches.
That means conversations that explore feelings alongside simple, actionable steps to try between sessions. He also uses psychodynamic ideas to look at how past relationships and family background can affect current patterns. People come to Robert with a wide range of issues including addiction, anger, trauma and body image concerns.
He also supports those dealing with immigration, isolation, family of origin problems and life purpose questions. Robert aims to create a space where difficult feelings can be named and worked through at a steady pace. Sessions can be arranged as short check-ins or longer therapeutic work.
He will discuss the likely shape of therapy at the first meeting and agree a path that fits the client's goals and timing.
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Sessions & fees
Approaches You Can Try Online
Client-centred therapy focuses on listening and understanding. The therapist offers acceptance and helps clients find their own solutions by reflecting what they hear and following the client’s lead. This approach can help when someone needs space to talk through emotions and feel heard.Cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It uses straightforward exercises and small behavioural experiments to reduce anxiety, manage moods or address unhelpful habits. CBT is often useful when practical strategies and short-term change are the goal.
Psychodynamic work pays attention to how past relationships and family patterns influence current behaviour. It helps people notice repeated patterns and understand where difficult feelings come from, which can be helpful for long-standing issues such as attachment, abandonment or family of origin concerns.
Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what has or hasn’t helped before, and together they will choose methods that fit the person. That collaboration makes it easier to adjust the plan as therapy progresses.
Online therapy offers flexibility for busy lives. Video calls recreate a face-to-face conversation; phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a camera is not wanted. Live chat and text messaging suit shorter check-ins or when someone prefers writing their thoughts. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, parenting or travel while still using established therapeutic methods.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Body image
- Communication problems
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Parenting issues
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 7 years
- Registered with
- BACP, NCPS
- Languages
- English, Polish