David Atlay
Experienced counsellor helping people find steady change
About David
David Atlay is a counsellor with ten years of experience based in the United Kingdom. He holds a Postgraduate Diploma in Counselling and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). He offers a calm, patient presence and aims to help people find practical ways forward when life feels overwhelming.
David focuses on everyday problems such as stress, anxiety, low self-esteem and depression. He also supports people facing career decisions, grief, relationship concerns, addiction struggles and major life changes.
Background and approach
He uses straightforward conversations to help people reduce unhelpful patterns and regain energy. His approach is rooted in Client-Centred Therapy which prioritises the person's own experience and choices. He also draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, using practical tools to challenge negative thoughts and build new habits.
Sessions are respectful and non-judgemental, with a collaborative tone. In a typical session David listens first and then works with the person to identify small, manageable steps. He offers coaching-style support when needed and helps people rehearse different ways of responding to difficult situations.
The aim is steady, sustainable change rather than quick fixes. David communicates in English and works with adults who want to tackle issues like stress, trauma, eating concerns, parenting strain and compassion fatigue. He describes counselling as a place to make sense of painful experiences and to practice alternatives that feel more freeing.
What David works with
How David works
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Sessions & fees
How his approaches work online
David uses Client-Centred Therapy to place the person's perspective at the heart of the work. That means sessions begin with listening and reflecting so the person feels heard and can decide on priorities. This approach suits issues where making sense of feelings and regaining personal agency are important.He also uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, which focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing them with clear exercises. CBT is practical and often helpful for anxiety, low mood, stress and certain eating concerns because it gives step-by-step strategies to try between sessions.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. David will discuss goals and preferences and suggest whether a person-centred focus, CBT techniques or a combination will help most. Decisions are made collaboratively and adjusted as progress is tracked.
Online therapy with David is available by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation; phone sessions can fit a short break or work better when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and messaging suit shorter check-ins, written reflection or people who prefer not to use voice. These options make it easier to fit counselling around work and family life.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Coaching
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English