Thomas "Tom" Relevitch
Practical, person-focused therapy for life changes
About Thomas
Thomas "Tom" Relevitch offers a straightforward, person-focused approach to therapy. He emphasises listening first and helping people name what feels difficult. Tom aims to make early sessions calm and readable so people can talk without pressure.
Tom practises client-centred work, which means he puts the person's experience at the heart of sessions. He also draws on psychodynamic ideas to look at patterns that repeat over time, and on solution-focused techniques to build small, practical steps forward.
Background and approach
Together these approaches help with emotional distress and relationship questions. With ten years of professional experience in the United Kingdom, Tom has supported people through stress and anxiety, LGBT concerns, relationship difficulties and major life transitions. He also addresses issues such as abandonment, attachment struggles, feelings of emptiness, and guilt and shame.
His wider interests include polyamory and non-monogamous relationships, BDSM and kink, multicultural concerns, and men's issues. Tom works in a calm, non-judgemental way and invites people to set the pace. He respects that starting therapy can feel daunting and focuses on practical steps that suit each person.
Sessions aim to help people communicate more clearly, manage emotional pain and find workable next steps. Most of Tom's availability falls between 12 noon and 5 pm GMT from Monday to Thursday. He offers sessions in English and accepts international clients.
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Sessions & fees
Therapeutic approaches for online support
Tom uses client-centred therapy to prioritise the person's experience and to make sessions collaborative and respectful. This approach focuses on listening, reflecting what matters, and helping people feel understood so they can talk through difficult feelings.He also draws on psychodynamic thinking to notice recurring patterns in relationships and feelings. This can help people see where old experiences influence current choices and unlock different ways of responding.
Solution-focused techniques are used alongside these approaches to set clear, practical goals. Small, achievable steps are agreed and reviewed so progress is visible and manageable.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Tom will talk with you about needs, goals and preferences and together choose methods that feel helpful. The process is collaborative and adjusts as things change.
Online therapy offers practical benefits. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that feels useful. Phone sessions suit people who need less bandwidth or prefer not to be on camera. Live chat and text-based messaging provide short check-ins or ongoing support between sessions. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, travel or other commitments and give flexible routes to keep a therapeutic conversation going.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Coaching
- Communication problems
- Coping with life changes
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English