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Thomas "Tom" Relevitch

BACP ยท United Kingdom

Practical, person-focused therapy for life changes

Experience
10 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Session type
Online only

About Thomas

Thomas "Tom" Relevitch offers a straightforward, person-focused approach to therapy. He emphasises listening first and helping people name what feels difficult. Tom aims to make early sessions calm and readable so people can talk without pressure.

Tom practises client-centred work, which means he puts the person's experience at the heart of sessions. He also draws on psychodynamic ideas to look at patterns that repeat over time, and on solution-focused techniques to build small, practical steps forward.

Background and approach

Together these approaches help with emotional distress and relationship questions. With ten years of professional experience in the United Kingdom, Tom has supported people through stress and anxiety, LGBT concerns, relationship difficulties and major life transitions. He also addresses issues such as abandonment, attachment struggles, feelings of emptiness, and guilt and shame.

His wider interests include polyamory and non-monogamous relationships, BDSM and kink, multicultural concerns, and men's issues. Tom works in a calm, non-judgemental way and invites people to set the pace. He respects that starting therapy can feel daunting and focuses on practical steps that suit each person.

Sessions aim to help people communicate more clearly, manage emotional pain and find workable next steps. Most of Tom's availability falls between 12 noon and 5 pm GMT from Monday to Thursday. He offers sessions in English and accepts international clients.

What Thomas works with

Primary focus
Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issues
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How Thomas works

Client-Centred Therapy

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Psychodynamic Therapy

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Solution-Focused Therapy

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Sessions & fees

Therapeutic approaches for online support

Tom uses client-centred therapy to prioritise the person's experience and to make sessions collaborative and respectful. This approach focuses on listening, reflecting what matters, and helping people feel understood so they can talk through difficult feelings.

He also draws on psychodynamic thinking to notice recurring patterns in relationships and feelings. This can help people see where old experiences influence current choices and unlock different ways of responding.

Solution-focused techniques are used alongside these approaches to set clear, practical goals. Small, achievable steps are agreed and reviewed so progress is visible and manageable.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Tom will talk with you about needs, goals and preferences and together choose methods that feel helpful. The process is collaborative and adjusts as things change.

Online therapy offers practical benefits. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that feels useful. Phone sessions suit people who need less bandwidth or prefer not to be on camera. Live chat and text-based messaging provide short check-ins or ongoing support between sessions. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, travel or other commitments and give flexible routes to keep a therapeutic conversation going.
Session lengthTypically 50 minutes
Client agesAdults, 18 and over
FeesSubscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime
InsuranceNot billed directly

Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does Tom address?
He helps with stress, anxiety, LGBT issues, relationship problems and coping with life changes, along with related areas such as shame, abandonment and communication difficulties.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Tom combines client-centred listening with psychodynamic reflection and solution-focused steps to help people understand patterns and try practical changes.
How much experience does he have?
He has ten years of professional experience working with people in the United Kingdom on a range of emotional and relational concerns.
What credential does he hold and where is he based?
He holds BACP and works from the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English and he is able to work with international clients.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging depending on what suits the person.
How are costs handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of focus

What this therapist works with

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Experience
10 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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