Steve Smalec
Practical counselling for stress and anxiety
About Steve
Steve Smalec helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety and low mood. He offers straightforward support for relationship worries, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem and confidence. He also addresses communication problems, guilt and shame, social anxiety and phobia.
Steve uses a calm, direct style so clients can talk through what matters to them. Steve has worked in the United Kingdom for 20 years and holds BACP registration, which stands for the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.
Background and approach
That experience has involved helping people rebuild motivation and find clearer ways to cope day to day. He aims to make sessions practical and understandable rather than full of jargon. Sessions focus on identifying what is getting in the way and building manageable steps forward.
Steve encourages people to notice small changes and to practise new ways of thinking and relating between meetings. He pays attention to how shame, guilt and past hurt can shape current reactions. The approach is collaborative.
Steve helps clients set realistic goals and chooses techniques that suit each person’s pace and needs. He works in a way that respects where someone is starting from and what they hope to change. Many people come wanting relief from anxiety or a clearer sense of self.
Steve supports them in developing skills for emotional regulation, improved communication and greater self-compassion. He aims to leave people with tools they can keep using after sessions end.
What Steve works with
Sessions & fees
Approaches you can try online with a counsellor
Steve often uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on clear skills and practical change. Cognitive approaches look at patterns of thinking and help people test out new, less distressing ways to view situations; these are useful for anxiety, low mood and self-critical thinking.Another common strand involves skills for emotional regulation and coping after trauma or abuse. These techniques teach grounding, breathing and step-by-step ways to tolerate strong feelings while reducing avoidance and overwhelm.
Working out which approach fits best is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most manageable, then adapt methods as progress is made. This is a collaborative process where clients help shape the focus of sessions.
Online therapy offers practical benefits. Video calls let people read facial cues and work more like an in-person session, while phone sessions need less bandwidth and can be easier during a busy day. Live chat and text-based messaging suit shorter check-ins or moments when not being on camera helps concentration. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family life and other commitments.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
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| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Experience
- 20 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English