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Steve Smalec

BACP · United Kingdom

Practical counselling for stress and anxiety

Experience
20 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Session type
Online only

About Steve

Steve Smalec helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety and low mood. He offers straightforward support for relationship worries, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem and confidence. He also addresses communication problems, guilt and shame, social anxiety and phobia.

Steve uses a calm, direct style so clients can talk through what matters to them. Steve has worked in the United Kingdom for 20 years and holds BACP registration, which stands for the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

Background and approach

That experience has involved helping people rebuild motivation and find clearer ways to cope day to day. He aims to make sessions practical and understandable rather than full of jargon. Sessions focus on identifying what is getting in the way and building manageable steps forward.

Steve encourages people to notice small changes and to practise new ways of thinking and relating between meetings. He pays attention to how shame, guilt and past hurt can shape current reactions. The approach is collaborative.

Steve helps clients set realistic goals and chooses techniques that suit each person’s pace and needs. He works in a way that respects where someone is starting from and what they hope to change. Many people come wanting relief from anxiety or a clearer sense of self.

Steve supports them in developing skills for emotional regulation, improved communication and greater self-compassion. He aims to leave people with tools they can keep using after sessions end.

What Steve works with

Primary focus
Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuse
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Sessions & fees

Approaches you can try online with a counsellor

Steve often uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on clear skills and practical change. Cognitive approaches look at patterns of thinking and help people test out new, less distressing ways to view situations; these are useful for anxiety, low mood and self-critical thinking.

Another common strand involves skills for emotional regulation and coping after trauma or abuse. These techniques teach grounding, breathing and step-by-step ways to tolerate strong feelings while reducing avoidance and overwhelm.

Working out which approach fits best is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most manageable, then adapt methods as progress is made. This is a collaborative process where clients help shape the focus of sessions.

Online therapy offers practical benefits. Video calls let people read facial cues and work more like an in-person session, while phone sessions need less bandwidth and can be easier during a busy day. Live chat and text-based messaging suit shorter check-ins or moments when not being on camera helps concentration. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family life and other commitments.
Session lengthTypically 50 minutes
Client agesAdults, 18 and over
FeesSubscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime
InsuranceNot billed directly

Questions people ask

What kinds of problems does Steve help with?
He helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship worries, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem and depression, plus related issues like communication problems and social anxiety.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
He uses a straightforward, calm and practical approach that focuses on small, manageable changes and building useful skills between sessions.
What is his professional background?
He has 20 years of professional experience working in the United Kingdom and supporting people with a range of emotional and relational concerns.
What credentials does he hold and where is he based?
He is registered with BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and practises in the United Kingdom.
Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?
Sessions are offered to international clients and are available in English.
What formats are available for sessions?
Sessions can take place via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to fit different preferences and schedules.
How does payment and cost work?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin if I want to work with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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Experience
20 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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