Shelley Wilman
Compassionate integrative counsellor with 30 years' experience
About Shelley
Shelley Wilman has worked in counselling and psychotherapy for 30 years in the United Kingdom. She is a BACP member and brings long experience to conversations about stress, anxiety, grief and depression. Shelley writes plainly and aims to make the first steps feel manageable for people who are worried or unsure.
Shelley describes herself as an integrative practitioner who does not use a single method for everyone. She listens to each person’s story and draws on a range of ways to help, including cognitive approaches and trauma-focused work.
Background and approach
Sessions are aimed at helping people understand their feelings and find practical ways to cope. Her style centres on partnership and respect. Shelley treats each person as the expert on their life and works to build on existing strengths.
That means she helps people clarify goals and try small changes between sessions. Shelley offers approaches that suit different kinds of problems - from short-term, solution-focused work to longer conversations about meaning and identity. She also uses methods designed for trauma and distress when these are needed.
The aim is steady, practical progress rather than quick fixes. People come for help with relationships, intimacy-related problems, self-esteem, anger and family concerns. Shelley also supports people facing issues like body image, abandonment, bereavement, cancer-related distress and feelings of isolation.
Her 30 years of experience guide a calm, patient practice that focuses on what matters most to the client.
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How Shelley works
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Sessions & fees
Approaches that suit online therapy
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding. It helps people who need space to talk through their feelings and to build confidence in their own decisions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions connect and offers practical steps to change patterns that cause distress. Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, EMDR, is a trauma-focused method that can reduce the intensity of distressing memories and related reactions.Deciding on the best approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and try methods that match a person's goals and preferences. That means sessions can start with listening, move to practical exercises, or include trauma-focused techniques if needed. The choice is collaborative and may change as progress is made.
Online therapy offers different ways to meet depending on what suits someone that week. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions work well when a quieter setting or lower bandwidth is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging suit shorter check-ins, written reflection or people who prefer not to speak aloud. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family or medical appointments and to keep continuity when travel or life events interrupt schedules.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
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Also listed
- Abandonment
- Anger management
- Body image
- Cancer
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Money and financial issues
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 30 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English