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Shelley Wilman

BACP · United Kingdom

Compassionate integrative counsellor with 30 years' experience

Experience
30 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Session type
Online only

About Shelley

Shelley Wilman has worked in counselling and psychotherapy for 30 years in the United Kingdom. She is a BACP member and brings long experience to conversations about stress, anxiety, grief and depression. Shelley writes plainly and aims to make the first steps feel manageable for people who are worried or unsure.

Shelley describes herself as an integrative practitioner who does not use a single method for everyone. She listens to each person’s story and draws on a range of ways to help, including cognitive approaches and trauma-focused work.

Background and approach

Sessions are aimed at helping people understand their feelings and find practical ways to cope. Her style centres on partnership and respect. Shelley treats each person as the expert on their life and works to build on existing strengths.

That means she helps people clarify goals and try small changes between sessions. Shelley offers approaches that suit different kinds of problems - from short-term, solution-focused work to longer conversations about meaning and identity. She also uses methods designed for trauma and distress when these are needed.

The aim is steady, practical progress rather than quick fixes. People come for help with relationships, intimacy-related problems, self-esteem, anger and family concerns. Shelley also supports people facing issues like body image, abandonment, bereavement, cancer-related distress and feelings of isolation.

Her 30 years of experience guide a calm, patient practice that focuses on what matters most to the client.

What Shelley works with

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How Shelley works

Client-Centred Therapy

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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

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Existential Therapy

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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

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Solution-Focused Therapy

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Trauma-Focused Therapy

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Sessions & fees

Approaches that suit online therapy

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding. It helps people who need space to talk through their feelings and to build confidence in their own decisions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions connect and offers practical steps to change patterns that cause distress. Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, EMDR, is a trauma-focused method that can reduce the intensity of distressing memories and related reactions.

Deciding on the best approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and try methods that match a person's goals and preferences. That means sessions can start with listening, move to practical exercises, or include trauma-focused techniques if needed. The choice is collaborative and may change as progress is made.

Online therapy offers different ways to meet depending on what suits someone that week. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions work well when a quieter setting or lower bandwidth is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging suit shorter check-ins, written reflection or people who prefer not to speak aloud. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family or medical appointments and to keep continuity when travel or life events interrupt schedules.
Session lengthTypically 50 minutes
Client agesAdults, 18 and over
FeesSubscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime
InsuranceNot billed directly

Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does Shelley help with?
Shelley works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, low self-esteem and depression. She also supports people with relationship and intimacy-related issues, anger and a wide range of additional concerns such as body image and isolation.
How would Shelley describe her therapeutic style?
She uses an integrative, person-centred style that emphasises listening and collaboration. The focus is on understanding feelings, building on strengths and trying practical steps between sessions.
What background and experience does she have?
Shelley has 30 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom which informs a steady and patient approach to therapy. That background includes work with trauma, grief and long-term emotional concerns.
What credentials and location are listed for this counsellor?
She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international arrangements are supported?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What formats are available for sessions?
Sessions can be conducted by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. These different formats allow for shorter check-ins or longer conversations as needed.
How are fees and payment handled?
Cost varies with location and the therapist's availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. Specific pricing is provided through the service when booking.
How do I start working with Shelley?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. After that you can schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of focus

What this therapist works with

Experience
30 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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