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Ingrid Koehler

BACP · United Kingdom

Compassionate counselling for emotional recovery

Experience
14 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Session type
Online only

About Ingrid

Ingrid Koehler helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, and low self-esteem. She also supports those facing eating concerns, anger, intimacy-related issues, compassion fatigue and major life changes. Ingrid is named up front to make it clear who the reader would meet.

She works in a straightforward, compassionate way. Conversations are patient and paced to the person's comfort. The aim is to make sense of painful experiences and to find practical ways to cope and move forward.

Background and approach

Ingrid draws on attachment-based and emotionally focused approaches alongside client-centred and trauma-focused work. That means sessions look at patterns in relationships, how emotions are felt and expressed, and how past events shape present reactions. The counsellor helps people notice repeated patterns and try different ways of relating or responding.

Her background includes many years in NHS nursing, mainly in cancer care and clinical trials, before moving to counselling practice in 2011. She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. Sessions can include talking about loss, guilt, shame, abandonment, dissociation and the difficulties that follow abuse or long-term neglect.

The work often involves unpacking feelings, building self-trust and exploring clearer ways to communicate with others. Ingrid aims to join the dots so people can regain confidence and make choices that feel right for them.

What Ingrid works with

Primary focus
Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuse
Also works with

How Ingrid works

Attachment-Based Therapy

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Client-Centred Therapy

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Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

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Existential Therapy

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Trauma-Focused Therapy

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Sessions & fees

How Ingrid’s approaches translate to online therapy

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns. It helps people understand trust, closeness and avoidance in their relationships and how those patterns affect emotional reactions. Emotionally-Focused Therapy concentrates on the here-and-now of emotions within relationships. It helps people identify core feelings, express them more clearly and change unhelpful cycles with partners or others. Trauma-focused therapy pays attention to the impact of frightening or prolonged harm and offers ways to process difficult memories and reduce overwhelming responses.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work collaboratively to decide which methods fit a person’s needs, goals and preferences. That might mean focusing on attachment patterns at first, then bringing in trauma-focused tools later, or keeping sessions mainly client-centred while exploring deeper emotional work.

Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls let a person and therapist see facial cues and work interactively. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low or for shorter check-ins. Live chat and text-based messaging suit people who prefer to write, need more frequent brief contact, or who want to reflect before responding. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caring duties and travel, while keeping continuity of care with registered or accredited professionals.
Session lengthTypically 50 minutes
Client agesAdults, 18 and over
FeesSubscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime
InsuranceNot billed directly

Questions people ask

What issues does Ingrid help with?
She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief and depression, plus related concerns such as anger, eating issues and low self-esteem.
What is her therapeutic style like?
The style is warm and client-centred, with emphasis on listening, emotional exploration and practical coping strategies tailored to each person.
How long has she been practising?
She has 14 years of professional experience working as a counsellor and previously worked in NHS nursing in cancer care.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and operates from the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are offered?
People can meet by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of focus

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Experience
14 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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