Ingrid Koehler
Compassionate counselling for emotional recovery
About Ingrid
Ingrid Koehler helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, and low self-esteem. She also supports those facing eating concerns, anger, intimacy-related issues, compassion fatigue and major life changes. Ingrid is named up front to make it clear who the reader would meet.
She works in a straightforward, compassionate way. Conversations are patient and paced to the person's comfort. The aim is to make sense of painful experiences and to find practical ways to cope and move forward.
Background and approach
Ingrid draws on attachment-based and emotionally focused approaches alongside client-centred and trauma-focused work. That means sessions look at patterns in relationships, how emotions are felt and expressed, and how past events shape present reactions. The counsellor helps people notice repeated patterns and try different ways of relating or responding.
Her background includes many years in NHS nursing, mainly in cancer care and clinical trials, before moving to counselling practice in 2011. She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. Sessions can include talking about loss, guilt, shame, abandonment, dissociation and the difficulties that follow abuse or long-term neglect.
The work often involves unpacking feelings, building self-trust and exploring clearer ways to communicate with others. Ingrid aims to join the dots so people can regain confidence and make choices that feel right for them.
What Ingrid works with
How Ingrid works
Listed by Ingrid among the ways they work.
Listed by Ingrid among the ways they work.
Listed by Ingrid among the ways they work.
Listed by Ingrid among the ways they work.
Listed by Ingrid among the ways they work.
Sessions & fees
How Ingrid’s approaches translate to online therapy
Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns. It helps people understand trust, closeness and avoidance in their relationships and how those patterns affect emotional reactions. Emotionally-Focused Therapy concentrates on the here-and-now of emotions within relationships. It helps people identify core feelings, express them more clearly and change unhelpful cycles with partners or others. Trauma-focused therapy pays attention to the impact of frightening or prolonged harm and offers ways to process difficult memories and reduce overwhelming responses.Choosing the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work collaboratively to decide which methods fit a person’s needs, goals and preferences. That might mean focusing on attachment patterns at first, then bringing in trauma-focused tools later, or keeping sessions mainly client-centred while exploring deeper emotional work.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls let a person and therapist see facial cues and work interactively. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low or for shorter check-ins. Live chat and text-based messaging suit people who prefer to write, need more frequent brief contact, or who want to reflect before responding. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caring duties and travel, while keeping continuity of care with registered or accredited professionals.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Cancer
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Narcissism
- Post-traumatic stress
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 14 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English