Gemma "Phoebe" Harris
Person-centred counselling with calm practical support
About Gemma
Gemma "Phoebe" Harris is a counsellor with ten years' experience in the United Kingdom. She holds BACP accreditation from the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. She typically listens without judgement and aims to help people feel understood before moving into practical steps.
Her manner is straightforward and calm. Over a decade she has worked with people facing stress, anxiety and depression. She also supports those dealing with trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related concerns and bipolar management.
Background and approach
Gemma has particular experience with LGBT matters, ADHD, autism and neurodiversity-related questions. She uses a client-centred approach that keeps the person's priorities at the centre. Sessions are guided by what the client wants to work on rather than a fixed programme.
This means the pace and focus change to match each person's needs. In practice she helps people talk through relationship difficulties, parenting strain, sleep problems and anger. She also assists with body image, feelings of emptiness, compassion fatigue and caregiver stress.
Gemma can address issues connected to alternative sexual cultures such as BDSM and kink in an open, non-judgemental way. People connect with her for short-term problem solving and longer-term support. Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging.
Costs vary by location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. To get started, clients select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to therapist availability.
What Gemma works with
How Gemma works
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Sessions & fees
How client-centred therapy works online
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person rather than directing them. The counsellor offers empathy, non-judgemental listening and reflection so the client can find their own solutions. This approach is often helpful for stress, anxiety, self-esteem and relationship concerns where feeling heard matters more than following a strict technique.Gemma will work with each person to decide what fits best. That means exploring goals, preferences and what feels manageable. The plan can change if a different focus or pace is needed, and the decision is made together rather than imposed by the counsellor.
Online formats make it easier to fit counselling into a busy life. Video calls give face-to-face contact without travel. Phone sessions need less bandwidth and can be used for shorter check-ins. Live chat and text messaging let people write when it suits them and keep a written record of reflections. These options increase flexibility and make it simpler to maintain regular sessions around work, family or health commitments.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
|---|---|
| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Intimacy-related issues
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English