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Gemma Lillington

BACP ยท United Kingdom

Practical, person-focused counselling for life's challenges

Experience
5 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Session type
Online only

About Gemma

Gemma Lillington is a counsellor with five years' experience offering practical, down-to-earth support. She works with people feeling anxious, low in mood, stressed, or struggling with relationships and life changes. Gemma also helps with grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, sleep and eating difficulties, anger, career concerns and ADHD.

She meets clients with patience, respect and a calm presence. Gemma uses an integrative approach, blending methods to suit each person's needs rather than following a single formula.

Background and approach

Sessions aim to build understanding of what is keeping problems going. She also offers straightforward tools people can use between meetings to cope better day to day. Her style is collaborative and practical.

Gemma listens first, then helps people set small, achievable goals. Some weeks focus on talking through past events and patterns; other weeks focus on skills and planning for change. People can expect a steady, non-judgemental space to work through difficult feelings and decisions.

Gemma pays attention to both emotions and practical steps, so therapy looks at how thoughts and routines affect mood and behaviour. She offers sessions by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging to fit different needs and schedules. If someone wants to try an approachable, flexible way of working that combines understanding with clear tools, Gemma may be a good fit.

What Gemma works with

Primary focus
Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSelf esteem
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How Gemma works

Client-Centred Therapy

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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

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Mindfulness Therapy

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Psychodynamic Therapy

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Solution-Focused Therapy

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Trauma-Focused Therapy

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Sessions & fees

How Gemma's approaches work online

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person's experience. The therapist offers empathy and acceptance while the person leads the pace and topics, which helps when someone needs space to be heard and valued.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact. It breaks problems into manageable steps and teaches practical techniques for anxiety, low mood, sleep and unhelpful patterns.

Finding the right blend of approaches is part of the work. Gemma will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and then adapt sessions over time. This collaborative process helps make sure the methods used fit the individual's needs.

Online therapy offers flexibility in how people connect. Video calls let conversations feel close to in-person meetings, phone sessions need less bandwidth and are useful for a shorter check-in, live chat suits those who prefer typing in the moment, and text messaging supports ongoing contact between appointments. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and travel commitments while still getting consistent support from registered or accredited professionals.
Session lengthTypically 50 minutes
Client agesAdults, 18 and over
FeesSubscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime
InsuranceNot billed directly

Questions people ask

What issues can Gemma help with?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, low mood and relationship difficulties, plus grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, sleep and eating problems, anger, career concerns and ADHD.
How would she describe her therapeutic style?
Her approach is collaborative and practical, combining listening with goal setting and tools to use between sessions.
What is her professional background?
Gemma has five years' experience working as a counsellor and draws on several therapeutic approaches in her practice.
What credentials and where is she based?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and works from the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
What formats are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs.
How are sessions paid for?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to therapist availability.

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Experience
5 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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