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Deshika Godawattage

BACP · United Kingdom

Practical, person-focused counselling for life’s stresses

Experience
4 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English, Sinhala
Session type
Online only

About Deshika

Deshika Godawattage offers calm, practical support for people feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief or low self-esteem. She uses straightforward conversation to help clients find their strengths and make small, useful changes. Sessions are offered in English and Sinhala and she works with people across the United Kingdom and internationally.

Her approach is grounded in client-centred therapy, which means she follows each person’s pace and priorities. Sessions focus on listening, reflecting and helping people notice options they may not have seen.

Background and approach

This can suit anyone facing life changes, workplace strain, relationship tensions or emotional reactions like anger and panic. With four years of professional experience and registration with BACP, she draws on practical strategies rather than jargon. Conversations might look at coping skills for sleep, ways to manage anxiety, or building confidence step by step.

She also pays attention to issues such as attachment, multicultural concerns and identity-related stresses. People often bring concerns about trauma, bereavement, mood swings, or challenges linked to ADHD and autism. In those sessions she aims to create a steady, non-judgemental space to talk things through and try small, realistic steps forward.

To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then book sessions that suit their schedule. Therapy can take different forms depending on the person’s goals, from coaching-style conversations to deeper emotional work.

What Deshika works with

Primary focus
Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGrief
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How Deshika works

Client-Centred Therapy

Listed by Deshika among the ways they work.

Sessions & fees

How client-centred therapy works online

Client-centred therapy focuses on listening and responding to what each person needs. The therapist follows the client’s lead, reflects what they say and helps them notice their own strengths and choices. This approach is well suited to issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, grief and relationship concerns because it centres the person’s experience.

In online sessions this same way of working continues through conversation and gentle reflection. The counsellor will work collaboratively to find the best fit of techniques and focus areas based on the client’s goals and preferences. That might mean clearer coping strategies for panic, paced exploration of painful memories, or short coaching-style check-ins to build motivation.

Using video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging makes it easier to fit therapy into a busy life. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction and visual cues, while phone sessions need less bandwidth and can fit a break at work. Live chat or messaging can be useful for shorter check-ins or when someone prefers written conversations. These options give flexibility so clients can choose what works best for their schedule and comfort.
Session lengthTypically 50 minutes
Client agesAdults, 18 and over
FeesSubscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime
InsuranceNot billed directly

Questions people ask

What concerns does she help with?
She helps with stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and depression, plus relationship and workplace issues. Other focuses include trauma, sleep problems, ADHD and identity-related stresses.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her practice is client-centred, meaning sessions follow the client’s priorities and pace. Conversations aim to reflect back experiences and support practical next steps.
What is her background and experience?
She has four years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and life concerns. She emphasises strengths and gradual change in her work.
Where is she based and what credentials does she have?
She is based in the United Kingdom and holds registration with BACP as supplied in her profile.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and Sinhala to support English and Sinhala speakers.
Can people outside the UK work with her?
She accepts international clients, so people outside the United Kingdom can arrange sessions.
What session formats are offered?
She provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are costs and getting started handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions are provided via a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to availability.

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Experience
4 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English, Sinhala

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