Dr. Amanda Van Der Westhuizen
Experienced trauma-aware counsellor
About Amanda
Dr. Amanda Van Der Westhuizen is a counsellor with 17 years of clinical experience in the United Kingdom. She works with people facing anxiety, depression, trauma and relationship strain.
She aims to treat each person with respect, sensitivity and compassion from the first conversation. She welcomes diversity and pays attention to how different life situations shape someone’s difficulties. Amanda often supports people with complex presentations, including neurodiversity and co-occurring mental health issues.
Background and approach
She draws on a mix of approaches to match what each person needs. Sessions focus on practical steps and clear conversation. Amanda listens for patterns that keep problems going and helps people try small changes.
She helps clients work through grief, addiction concerns, identity and self-esteem, anger and career decision stress. Amanda uses trauma-informed methods when needed to address past abuse and painful memories. She also works with people on intimacy-related issues, attachment and abandonment concerns, and struggles linked to chronic pain or illness.
The work can cover practical coping strategies as well as deeper emotional processing. Her style is collaborative and paced to the client’s comfort. Amanda will tailor discussions and plans to each person’s goals and pace.
She encourages gradual steps so people can build things that feel sustainable in everyday life.
What Amanda works with
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Sessions & fees
How Amanda’s approaches translate to online therapy
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and working at the client’s pace. The therapist offers empathic listening and helps people set goals based on what matters to them. This approach is useful for issues like low self-esteem, relationship worries and coping with life changes.Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, often called EMDR, is used to process distressing memories and reduce their emotional impact. In online sessions this involves guided eye movements or other bilateral stimulation while talking through difficult memories, which can help with trauma and abuse recovery.
Trauma-Focused Therapy concentrates on addressing how past events affect current life. It combines careful discussion with strategies to manage strong emotions and reduce avoidance, helping with symptoms of PTSD, dissociation and complex trauma-related problems.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss options and help choose methods that match your goals, pace and comfort. Sessions are collaborative and reviewed as work progresses so the plan can change if needed.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls let you use visual cues for deeper conversation, phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited, live chat is useful for short check-ins, and text messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy around life, work and other commitments.
| Session length | Typically 50 minutes |
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| Client ages | Adults, 18 and over |
| Fees | Subscription via BetterHelp, cancel anytime |
| Insurance | Not billed directly |
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Career difficulties
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 17 years
- Registered with
- HCPC
- Languages
- English, Afrikaans